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Introduction Section 4
Decoding Your Love Map
Clearing Relationship Patterns from the Past


Love Maps
The final step in the dating preparation process
is to take a solid look at your dating history and
patterns.

There are, no doubt, some habits and patterns
that are holding you back.

Cycles you repeat.
Behaviors that don’t get you where you want to go.
Things that no longer serve you well.

If you are committed to creating a lifetime of lasting love, then you’ll have to take the time to identify these patterns so you can choose ones that serve your new purpose: real love.

Taking Back Your Power

As long as these patterns are hidden, they will undermine your success and control the outcome of your love life. Once these patterns are illuminated by awareness, you will have the power to choose a different, more satisfying outcome.

By increasing your insight into your love patterns, and where they came from, you take back the power to create your destiny, and attract your soulmate.

Going Back

Now, many of you are going to groan when I tell you this, but identifying your love patterns is going to involve going back over your childhood. as well as previous important romantic relationships.

You’ll be reviewing your relationship with your parents and gaining insight into how your early family molded you into who you are today. You’ll see how your early experience colored all of your relationships, up till now.

A Crucial Step

Some of you may be tempted to skip this whole section.

Maybe because it involves some deep thinking.
Maybe because a walk down memory lane isn’t always so jolly.
Maybe because it will take you extra time and effort.
Maybe because you think it doesn’t matter.
Maybe because you think you’ve done that all before.
Maybe because you think it doesn’t apply to you.

But let me assure you, this is one of the most powerful components to the entire system.

If you skip this section, you might as well skip the whole program!

Because, you’ll need the insights you gain in this section.
It will essentially form your new road map to your soulmate.

Without knowing where you have been, you can never get to where you want to go!

If you are willing to do the work in this section, I can guarantee that you will have some “Ah-Ha” moments. Moments that light up your past and moments that illuminate your future.

Trust me, you want a clear path to your soulmate, and the only way through, is to make a pit stop- through the past.

Are you ready to delve into your patterns? Let’s make it an adventure.


Section Map: Articles

  Article 4:1 Introduction to Love Maps
  Article 4.2 Operation Love Map
  Article 4.3 Love Map Cycles
  Article 4.4 The Dating Styles
  Article 4.5 The Deliberate Dater
  Article 4.6 The Desperate Dater
  Article 4.7 The Defensive Dater
  Article 4.8 Positive Alignment and Your Love Style
  Article 4.9 Personalizing Your Love Map
  Article 4.10 Identify Your Adult Romantic Patterns
  Article 4.11 Understanding Your Romantic Life
  Article 4.12 Your Soulmate Manifesto
  Article 4.13 Past Pain Reframe
  Article 4.14 Wounds as Your Greatest Gifts
  Article 4.15 The Final Parable of Forgiveness
  Article 4.16 The Renewal Ritual
  Article 4.17 Coming to Completion